zebakoli:

     To the person who told me to go kill myself, I have a depression disorder and you was unaware of it. I have cut myself loads of times, almost committed suicide before because of family problems, been physically beaten, and verbally abused. Do not be quick to judge just because you hate me; think before you speak. - Zeba Koli

I usually don’t re-blog things, as you can tell from my blog. These are the types of things that just need to stop in our world. You can’t just go tell people to go kill themselves or make fun of how they look, you don’t know what they’re going through. You can’t assume what they’re going through either.

It’s not fun being depressed. It’s not fun cutting yourself and it’s not fun spending your night in a hospital. It makes you feel horrible. Telling someone to go kill their-self only adds to the problem and the stress. It needs to stop and people need to min their own business.

Yeah, I love helping people out with personal problems, and just anything in general. I love listening to people, and it’s like I know some people just need someone to listen to them let it out and you don’t even have to try to give them advice, they just want you to listen and know that you care. Some people want advice ad I try my best to give the the right advice.

Now this is a rough topic for me, because i’m with it but i’m not. I mean, there’s goods and bads to it, rights and wrongs. There’s no true rigt or wrong side to it. It just is.

The reasons people get an abortion is variable. I believe they shouldn’t just get an abortion bcause they just weren’t protected and didn’t think about using some or something. A good reason I see is like if a condom brke, or if someone got raped. The person shouldn’t have to live with that constant reminder.

Abortion isn’t always wrong as to the fact the world is at 7 billion, we don’t need to reproduce at the rate we are now. Some people if they decide not to get an abortion, they put the baby up for adoption. Then we’re left with a bunch of homeless people, and orphans. Then there’s he people that get an abortion because of a defect it might have, I find that wrong. Then again, you can do what you want to your body since the baby is technically not a person until it takes a breath.

I’m not trying to change anybodies views on it, there’s just not right or wrong that I can see.

  Jobs; people are saying there isn’t enough. I personally do not have a job, because I do not need one to support me yet. My parents both have jobs. What I see although is all of these job openings, and there around for weeks without anybody going for them! I mean, if you’re going t complain about not having a job at least go out and look for one. At least having a job is better than being homeless and with no food.

  The problem with jobs is yeah, there’s not enough. The jobs are also being taken by younger people, is what the older people are saying. Well sometimes younger people need the money more depending on their situation, because some teenagers have to support their own family (whether it’s they had children or they just have to support their parents and siblings). I don’t think you should be able to complain about not having a job if you (A.) Didn’t finish high school (B.) Are not looking for a job (C.) If you are wealthy enough to take care of yourself for the rest of your life. I feel bad for the people that live in fear of getting laid-off every day. But hey, tomorrows always a new day.

  I live in Michigan. I can’t be one to complain, however. This winter has been one of the best winters in a long time. It hasn’t snowed much at all. I used to love the cold. I dislike it now.

  Hot vs. Cold is like Good vs. Bad. You can always argue which is better, and to degree something is good or bad. I love heat. It helps you relax and your muscles aren’t as tight. Cold tightens your muscles. Cold is often very dry, and damp colds are just the worst.

  I love the heat because if it’s not TOO hot out, you can do almost anything such as walking, running, hiking, etc. Cold sometimes is fun and has it’s benefits, but it’s just not as enjoyable. I don’t like going to bed freezing cold.

  It’s harder to get cold then it is to get warm, but i’m happy about that. Being cold isn’t always a horrible thing, it’s just unpleasant to me. Being warm is also associated with being happy, being cold means being sad. Warm also reminds me of reds and yellows, and cold as blues or greys.

Although, I like those cold winter days where you can sit by the fire.. :)

“Dear 16-year-old me” is a video about “melanoma”. It’s a tumor that starts in the skin cells. It’s a type of cancer, but it’s not one of those cancer’s that you can just cut it out and you’ll be fine.

  This video didn’t mean much to me, as in i’ve never met a person with this type of cancer. I have lost other people to breast cancer and blood cancer. This video honestly gave me goosebumps.

  I love the facts pointed out in here, and how it’s telling teens to stop or at least lessen tanning. It’s just an amazing video that I can’t say enough about.

  Love, it comes all shapes and sizes and forms. Every-one’s definition of love is different, however. I personally do believe in love at first sight. It sounds cheesy, but I don’t think so. Sometimes people just feel a connection without even saying a word to each-other. I have been in love, though it took awhile to even realize it. It wasn’t at first sight.

  Some people take it too seriously sometimes though. I think you should actually get to know the person first, not just two days after you meet, you get married. I literally saw a post on Facebook like that, that’s just ridiculous. The person you get married to should be your best friend, a person you can tell anything to, a person you trust. You can’t have a relationship without trust, or else it’s just chaos.

  Everyone deserves love, because love is being happy with somebody you can share your life with. Age, gender, and other differences in love shouldn’t be such a big deal. I’m not talking about a +10 year age difference or anything, but age shouldn’t really matter.

  I honestly find teens now-a-days to be too sexually active and take relationships too seriously. Fact is more then half of high-school teens have had sex already. I personally think that you shouldn’t have sex until marriage, but that’s just my opinion. Honestly my friend in December had a baby and she’s like 15. It’s outrageous. I think they made the right decision however when they had an open adoption.

  One thing I find nice is old couples. When they hold hands and such. I like hearing stories about people that have been together for like 40-50 years, not stories of “Oh, my first spouse I was with lasted 5 years, the next spouse was 2 years..” and so on. What I find sad is when people loose their spouse, and they’ve been together for quite a while and have been extremely happy with it. Many people loose their spouse to war, age, accidents, and sadly sometimes murder.

  Love is not only about a significant other. It’s about loving yourself for who are, because if you can’t love yourself what makes you think somebody else can love you? It’s also about loving the people you have in your life and being grateful for them. Your friends and family. Many people may not have what you have, or they are going through the same thing as you. SO be thankful for what you have.

  I, personally, am not a homosexual or a homophobic. I have many friends that are homosexuals though, and I know many homophobics. I’m not generally friends with homophobics because I disagree in their opinion, but I do have some homophobic friends.

  My friends that are homophobic have one main reason- religion. I’m personally not a religious person either. In the Bible, no where it specifically says “God hates gays” or anything like that. I mean, many homosexuals ARE religious and stay that way through their lives.

  Homophobics are entitled their opinion. Some of the reasons though are just flat out ridiculous. “It’s just wrong” isn’t a very good reason. Why is it wrong? Everybody is entitled to love, happiness, and marriage. I think all states should legalize it, they’re making money off of it.

  Now, onto the topic of homosexuality itself. Homosexuality has been observed in over 400 species of animals, including seagulls, squirrels, and dolphins. It is by no means unnatural. Anyone who claims otherwise needs to open their mind and shut their mouth.

  One little fact. A study performed by the Department of Psychology at the University of Georgia found that men who were homophobic were actually the most easily aroused by homosexuality. So the question is, are homophobic men actually closeted homosexuals? I believe that they are, and the evidence, as uncovered by a University Study. Maybe they’re just jealous of the people that have the courage to actually be open and out about it. Who knows.

There is nothing different about homosexuals. They are people, just like you and me. Homosexuality is no better or worse than Heterosexuality.

Love is love, regardless of who the people in love are.

I made this Tumblr for several reasons..

  My first reason was to see just what it was like, because I had my doubts on it. I didn’t think it was going to be that great of a site. As many of my friends decided to get one, I was like “Alright, i’ll just get one too”. I didn’t know what I was going to use it for, but now I know that I just want to use it to openly express my opinions.

  Note, these are MY opinions. I don’t really care what you think of them. If it’s not an opinion of mine, it’s someone else’s opinion that I think is cool or I have my own opinion on. Sometimes I just might do opinions on just facts.. who knows.

 I also created this to help people become more open minded, because many people these days don’t think outside the box.. Many opinions are based upon the opinions of their friends and wht they think, so many people are never truly expressing what they actually think about it.